I recently read research work by two Sociologists. When I finished it reading, I knew exactly what they were writing about. In their words, they say that “Women go through life out of synchronization with reality“. How does cooking romantic dinner recipes fit in? This is what I construed. Read on, and you be the judge.
As these two Sociologists explained, we women do not confront reality head-on and we are prone to act in certain ways. One of those ways is to bury our heads in the sand. Women's intent, they claim, is to pretend that things are the way they are not. In the process, they lye to themselves and to others. Sociologists appears to know all about it.
There is, however, one thing that I strongly believe we women must confront head-on without lying and pretending. It is about our men. We are losing them slowly, gradually ~and in most cases~ imperceptibly. Many of us will never get to know it. Some may suspect it. Few already know it and use the recourse we women are good at: we pretend.
I observed and studied men quite extensively. It is clear to me that they are creatures of nature. It is not so clear to us women, however, that it is nature's designer the one telling men to take all the women they can. It is not fathers, older brothers, or uncles telling younger men to take all the women they can. To have one woman is socially and legally imposed, but nature's designer mandates otherwise using three ingredients of a powerful cocktail: deeply embedded Instincts, a vigorous Sex Drive, and Testosterone.
Men know all of this when they look at each other in the eye.
The risk to us wives doubles in seriousness when women out there fervently wave a flag: “I am independent and liberated”. Those women are willing to have affairs and to have sex with a guy they met time ago regardless of his marital status. Personally, I do not blame men going with the flow. They act on what a mastermind conceived and then imposes on men. Guys act on their instincts and sex drive just like we women act on maternal instincts.
There is one splendid way we women can use to keep our men with us. It never fails to work. Read that again: “It never fails to work”. That way is to use romantic food when cooking romantic dinner recipes. We must realize that cooking romantic dinner recipes at home is to be planned, and it is to be done with imagination. When we are cooking romantic dinner recipes, our own romantic food allows us to create unforgettable and fabulous events that will get etched in our heart and his.
We are now promoting what must not fade away: to bond with him. We must let that man in our life know how far we are willing to go for his love, that he is wanted, and that he is needed.
In the process, we give ourselves a splendid chance to transform our romantic food into bomb shells of nutrients to nourish both our health, and his virility with healthy foods that will not affect your meals or his taste.
Few things are more engaging to any man than coming to a woman who transforms regular days into romantic evenings at home. Cooking romantic dinner recipes open the gates to unforgettable and enchanting evenings that keep alive his feelings for us. We may not be able to do it every day, but we must find ways to surprise him often enough until romance becomes the norm in our lives rather than an event that occurs “yes… some times“.
When we feed our relationship and keep it healthy as the day we said “Yes”, we preserve our right to keep our man in love with us instead of him coming to us after having encounters with other women.
All you read above is directed to women out there who are not yet aware
that we may continue singing songs about “the way things should be”, but
nature's designer may not sing along.
It is up to you to bury your head in the sand or not, to confront reality
head-on or not, or to remain out of synchronization so nothing changes.
There is a splendid tool right by your side to keep him by your side:
<a href=”http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Cooking_Romantic_Dinner_recipes_And_Romantic_Food.html”>romantic food used to do magic when cooking romantic dinner recipes.
Author's Bio
* Sheryl Josserme
* Author of “Cooking For Your Man”
A strong believer that a relationship is more than a Marriage License.
In her e-book, she unveils <a href=”http://www.fountain-of-wisdom.com/top-secret-recipes.html” target=”_blank”>how exactly cooking romantic dinner recipes is
one of the most efficient ways to fuel a fire before another license
becomes worthless.
